Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Christmas Thoughts

Last night...after a busy day of shopping, baking, wrapping and decorating...I had a bit of quiet time to just sit and think about Christmas and all the hardships and blessings my family has gone through over the years. I thought of the Christmas I moved to PA with my mother and my three children after a divorce from an abusive husband. We had little money, but were able to buy each child one gift and make them each a decorator pillow for their bed. Their stockings were filled with nuts, fruit and one small chocolate treat. We had a small tree and decorated it with popcorn and cranberries (no money for lights) and made paper snowflakes for the windows. I made a straw wreath for the door. I made one too for my sister in California and we sent it along with a cassette tape that Mom, the kids and I made singing Carols by the piano and entertaining each other with a little Christmas skit.
At the time, my mother and I thought it was a disappointing Christmas for the kids. Before that year (1985) Christmas Eve was spent with lots of family and friends at my Aunt Dot's in Southern California and the children usually had quite a few gifts on Christmas morning. That first year in PA was a hard one, but taught us many lessons on life and what was important. Now that they are grown the children remember that Christmas as one of their most memorable holidays ever.
Today I am thinking of my son who is serving in Okinawa. This will be his first Christmas away from home. He is certainly safe and will be coming home in January, but my prayer for him...and for all the servicemen and women who will be spending Christmas away from home... is that they will find comfort in time spent with friends and memories of holidays at home, that they will be able to find a safe, quiet place to rest and reflect on the true meaning of the holiday and that the Lord will protect them and bring them home safely when their tours are over.
This year especially, I pray for the mending of broken family relationships and the strengthening of healthy ones. I pray for the prodigals to come home and for parents to welcome them with open arms and for us all to open our hearts to the possibilities of what can be if we are willing to be Jesus to one another in a dark world.
Have a Blessed Christmas!
Carol

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yes Im crying of course...you've done a beatiful job once again! We're having a Christmas like that this year, makes me feel a little better knowing your children survived and still think of it as one of their best memories.
I was once a prodigal/brat and 'someone' welcomed me back, best gift I ever gave myself! ;)

Anonymous said...

Praying for your son today in Okinawa. We have an ACCTS staff couple there that would be glad to meet him or at least pray for him if you like.
Cal Dunlap ACCTS

National Day of Prayer said...

Thank you Cal for offering to have someone pray with Nathan. We do not have contact with him at this point and they will be back in the States in about 10 days, so I don't think it would be possible for anyone to connect with him right now. Your prays are appreciated though.
Thank you so much
Carol

Anonymous said...

Hello, I thank God for men and women who serve our country during the Christmas because it just means they are watching over us. They have big hearts and it brings me joy to know that their doing this because they love us and care for our safety. I know that this special offering they make each day for us will not be overlooked by our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ including us because I rememeber where there at today. God Bless your family. . . rcruz101@hotmail.com